Today, Lord,  I want to thank you for the gift of life, and for teaching
me how to see through your eyes rather than my own. I want to thank 
you for enabling me to see myself as I truly am, weaknesses and all.

Since losing my Johnny, Lord, life, for a time became the opposite of what
I'd always believed it to be; appeared to be a dark, cold, lonely place,
a friendless place.

It took me awhile to recognize all the lies grief causes us to grasp hold of, to recognize that in truth nothing had changed, at least 
nothing that mattered, which is that you are always wherever I am, always loving me, always near to uplift and comfort me, to strengthen and 
guide me.

Teach me, I pray, how to be thankful for my trials, to truly be thankful, 
for it is in thanksgiving that we are brought closer to you. Thanksgiving
helps us recognize what we too often miss- the fact that everything that happens in our life, even the trials...are gifts from you. A trial comes, and
our first instinct is to become afraid. We take hold of that fear, and when we do, every following moment is wretched- miserable. Thank you for helping 
me understand this.

I knew the definition of thanksgiving only, Lord, and that wasn't enough.
Thank you for opening my eyes- and my heart to all that is beautiful, for
helping me see the SON in the dark of night, in the depths of my misery,
for teaching me how to discover the hidden blessings, to appreciate the
sweetness- the richness in the simple things.

Thank you for that promised peace of Christ, and the joy that is slowly
finding its way back into my life.

Gracious Father,

Today I approach your throne with thanksgiving for
a full night's sleep; this morning's sunshine, the songbirds, the
emails wishing me a wonderful day and renewed health, and
for the sweet memory of Johnny's words "I love you, Barb.
Always will."

 I thank thee for the trials of my life, for painful as they were,
 and are, they reveal to me my strengths, as well as my 
weaknesses; they help me recognize in what areas I need to grow.

Today, I again place my hurts, worries, fears and concerns 
into your hands. I do this  because they  are
to heavy for me- and to painful; and because I know that You are
the God of impossible things; you (many times), created masterpieces
out of the ruins of my life.

You are my Rock, my strength, 
the Joy of my heart.
You are my Peace.

Please, Lord, bless this day:
Those facing trials to great for their power:
Those behind prison walls, without friends, family or hope:
Those struggling with addictions:
Those whose children are in trouble:
Those who are struggling to hold tight to their faith:
Those who have lost everything because of natural disasters:
Those suffering because of an unwillingness to forgive:
Those whose marriages are in trouble:
Those who, this very minute, are in the valley of decision,
not sure whether they wish to live-or die:
Those who are lost, afraid, lonely, hungry, sad and friendless.

Let me, I pray, never remain blind, or willingly close my eyes
to the needs and pleas of my sisters and brothers in the world.
Grant me the ability to Love as You love me, to focus on the 
good in others- to the best of my ability, rightly represent Christ.
It is in His name I pray. Amen.

Gracious Father,


Teach me to live just for today, to stay focused on what truly matters: family,
the hurts and needs of others, the need for understanding and compassion. Help me to keep both heart and mind open, so that I won't miss those things you want me to hear- to know.


Teach me to walk in your steps, not lagging behind- so I could get lost, nor
running ahead, for then I would meet with things I'm not prepared for. Help me remember that walking with You means doing as You did, desiring what You desired.

Teach me to always speak the truth, to never fear persecution, criticism, or any negative thing; to remember always that nothing comes into my life, or departs from it without first having your stamp of approval.


Help me remember the deepness of my sorrows, how acute their pain, so that I will be able to minister to others more gently, more kindly, and with more compassion and patience.


Teach me how to let go, Gracious Father, of all those things that prevent me
from becoming the woman you desire me to be. Help me remember all that you forgave me for, so that when others need my forgiveness I am quick to give it.

Thank you for helping me see my flaws of character, for helping me understand how each of them messed up (and is still messing up my life).

Thank you for encouraging me each day, for comforting me, wiping my tears when I cry, and holding me tight against your heart when I am overwhelmed with the trials in my life.


Sometimes, especially since Johnny's death, I feel quite lost and misplaced, 
but know that in truth I am not, for YOU are wherever I am.

Bless my family and friends this day, Lord. You know their situations, their heart pain. Please comfort them as you do me. May each of them know today, the honor of your presence, the warmth of your love, and the tightness of
Your embrace.

Sometimes, like now, Lord, when my heart is so very heavy, I say your name, sometimes whisper it in the dark of night, and am comforted, for
I know that you are as close as my breath, that there is no need to fear. 

Thank you for today, Lord, difficult and painful as it has been. It isn't easy to cope with the many emotions that churn about like leaves in the wind, not easy to be strong when I feel so weak, but I can do all things in your strength.

So many changes are in the horizon, Lord. Help me remember that not all changes are bad, that in truth, every one of them has your stamp of approval on them. Help me remember that every trial I am facing is to teach me something. Help me to always retain an open mind, to be ready to listen to what you say, and to not just hear it, but to do as you ask, even though sometimes what you ask is beyond my understanding.

My beloved Johnny is gone now and it's so hard to adjust to life without him. Help me, Lord, when I go memory walking not to linger in the past to long. If one does, it becomes to easy to make the past ones home, and by  doing that, one is unable to move forward.

Thank you for loving me so much, for being so quick to lift me up, refill me with courage and strength, and for the dependability of your WORD. I love you.

Lord, thank you for your faithfulness, your dependability and your amazing love. Midst this present storm, no matter how rough it gets, or how scary, I know that always you are where I am. Because I know that, Lord, I come to you  needing comfort, guidance and wisdom.
Just for today, Lord, hold me a little closer to your heart when the tears come, a little tighter- so that I will feel a bit safer, and not so intimidated about tomorrow, or even the next moment.

Just for today, guide my thoughts, my feet, and my hands so that self pity gets no welcome at all. Keep my thoughts upon the GOD of my heart and life, the ONE who has always loved me, protected me, comforted me, led me and  kept me moving forward, upon the ONE who has never let me down.For today, Lord, let my feet remain on the right path, and my hands doing for others. Do not let the heaviness of this sadness in my heart turn me into a bitter, cold, unfeeling person, but help me to embrace it, knowing that every trial has within it a miracle, a miracle that will help my faith grow, my compassion grow, my patience and understanding grow.


Help me, Lord, to remain in the present moment, rather than dwelling on the past or running ahead into the future. The past is behind me, and the future  yet to be. THIS moment, this present is full of unused opportunities, full of "SHINY" moments (blessing from you), not yet experienced.

Help me embrace each moment as it comes, whether filled with joy and laughter, or sorrow and despair, remembering always that wherever I am YOU are, so there is no need to be fearful.Help me, today especially, hold tightly to your many promises, never forgetting that you have never broken a promise- never will.
Thank you for loving me so much, for being so quick to comfort me, for always reminding me of your presence.


Bless my family and friends, especially those who have, like myself, just lost a loved one. May all of us daily experience the warmth of your love, the honor of your presence and the tightness of your embrace.

 I love you, Lord.